Today is April 25th, our daughter Timborah's birthday. She would be 18 years old. Wow!! Do I feel old. Her birthday does not make me sad any more it just makes me reflective and a little melancholy. Abi and I celebrated by singing Happy Birthday at dinner tonight. I think it is hardest on Tim because he is away from the family this week. Loosing a child is something that you never "get over" no mater how much time passes. I wanted to tell someone that today was her birthday....not so they would feel sad for us....just to have a moment in the day when time stops and she is remembered. So....I guess this is that moment. Give your kids an extra hug tonight.